Post by Mystical Journey on Jan 6, 2012 23:55:04 GMT -8
Ok all, I have a question... I am going to be cleansing my sisters new apartment (next door to me by the way, yay!) in a couple of days. I do cleanings and blessings that work well but she has a particularly nasty son who is generally not around as he is not allowed but, there is the occasion... Is there something I can do to keep him from tearing the place apart... completely negating all positive energies with his big ball of violent anger is what I mean. He can clear a room in seconds just by opening the front door. He is not allowed in my place and can't come in (yes, the voodoo mirrors a friend blessed for me work very well-seriously will not walk through my door)... but I need something to help my sister as I can't be there every time immediately when he leaves...
Post by Mystical Journey on Jan 7, 2012 1:43:25 GMT -8
He's 36 and is violent. There is a restraining order but my sister doesn't enforce it. She won't be consistent in standing up to him. He knows what I am and will bad mouth me to anyone but is afraid of me. Lol. Hoping that the fact that we share a front porch will keep him away.we have been staying out of it and just giving support and advice but now it could effect our home so going to get nasty on him, lol. I would just banish him but my sister won't let me. So... working it out other ways.. I'll let you know what happens. You'd probably be very interested.
I think there are two things you could do. One is to completely cleanse the house (possibly with sage, if that's available to you and reinforce every room in the house with positive light-filled energy. Focus on the corners of the room, because they can help form a connective 'network' for the rest of the room. (If you believe in angels, you might want to ask for their help..
The other thing is to help your sister become consistent in standing up to him. Could be a spell or just strengthening energy being sent to her, but the protections on the house will probably only hold up in full force if she's strong enough to keep them there. The moment she wants him in and invites him in could be the moment when the positive energy will not be enough to remove him from the house.
(And, I would suggest, sending him some healing positive energies wouldn't hurt a fly either. He's obviously struggling with something or simply not being the guy he could be, so it'd be good to send him some positivity.
On the mundane side, you could install remote security cameras along with your cleansing and try to catch him in acts of violence. Presented with this, you could turn it over to the authorities and have him taken away. However, if your sister is unable,or unwilling, to stand up to him, there's not much you can do except offer your support and pray for them both.
Post by Mystical Journey on Jan 7, 2012 9:19:45 GMT -8
I would love to do that to Matt but not even a slight possibility. That involves $ that none of us has... or even remotely has the possibility of having. Besides, she has had him arrested but does not follow through... and that involves follow thru... We are just there for her, I send her strength and courage to stand up to him but it's usually short lived. A friend of facebook is helping out with some kind of binding spell, that is different from banishing.. Waiting to hear back from him to see exactly what I am suppose to do as this one is new to me... Kind of excited, love to learn new things, lol... I'll let you know what comes of it...
Anyway... what Matt really needs is someone, one of his many enableers, to serverely beat the crap out of him so he knows that he's not all that and that no one care what he things he is, lol... I am not a violent person but I have never come across anyone quite like Matt.. He does this not only to his mother, but his friends are treated in much the same way. Rediculous. Now remember, he is 36 years old and at one point he was even "mooning" his mom in her living room singing a song about how much he hates her and how worthless she is. And thsi is after allowing him to live at home rent free, everything free (by the way, she is a home health aide, she can't afford the two kids she has at home already -teens), does everything for him including taking care of his legal crap, taking him to the doctor, gettings his meds including paying for them,allowing him to drive her car even though he is illegal and she could end up with it impounded and he repeated takes it and doesn't come back even though she needs it to get to work. She is the worst enabler but we are working on her. He is crazy... I swear, not just saying that . something desperately wrong in his head.
Sorry went off there a little. Venting, lol.. it's good for us, right!!!
Post by Mystical Journey on Jan 7, 2012 10:39:55 GMT -8
The younger one is 15 and very smart. He gets it and just thoroughly enjoys when it's just him and his mom. That is when he is happy. He, thankfullly, does not have a violent bone in his body. The older one who is now 18 isn't around much. When Matt he acts like him, worships him... so bad... but when Matt isn't around, he is at least respectful and he loves his mom. He just gets really confused because Matt knows he can use him against my sister and he does. This boy is not quite sure what do to about it. You know how kids that age are, you can't tell them anything. It's a bad situation... And strange, more like an abusive crazy husband... this is her son. Very strange...
Post by Mystical Journey on Jan 7, 2012 16:16:56 GMT -8
Oh believe me, I am. We talk alot. He has really taken to me in the 1 1/2 years since we met. He's a nice kid. He worries most about his mom but doesn't say anything to her because it just makes her upset (sad in his words). He says she does better thinking he doesn't know what's happening. He is right, she probably does. Once he stood up to Matt against her, but only the one time. She got so upset. This would almost be easier if this was a husband. We are not trained as mothers for what do to when you have an abusive adult child... It's a crazy situation.
Post by Mystical Journey on Feb 1, 2012 0:25:38 GMT -8
I did put one just inside my sister's door and it has worked remarkably... that and little bowls of sea salt with various gemstones around the house... also... if he starts to get nasty, strangely enough he also starts to feel a wee bit nauseated. Hmmmmm. Strange... just doesn't suit him any more.